Unorthodox: The Scandalous Rejection of my Hasidic Roots
A memoir by Deborah Feldman
On sale February 14, 2012 from Simon and Schuster
this arresting memoir about growing up in—and ultimately escaping from—a strict
Hasidic community, Deborah Feldman reveals what life is like trapped within a
religious sect that values silence and suffering over individual freedoms.
The Satmar sect of Hasidic Judaism is as mysterious as it is intriguing to outsiders. Unorthodox sheds new light on this subculture through one woman’s harrowing tale of repression and self-discovery.
Raised in the cloistered world of
Brooklyn’s Satmar Hasidim, Deborah Feldman struggled as a naturally curious
child to make sense of and obey the rigid strictures that governed her daily
life. From what she could read to whom she could speak with, virtually every
aspect of her identity was tightly controlled.
Married at age seventeen to a
man she had only met for thirty minutes, and denied a traditional education—sexual
or otherwise—she was unable to consummate the relationship for an entire year.
Her resultant debilitating anxiety went undiagnosed and was exacerbated by the public
shame of having failed to serve her husband. In exceptional prose, Feldman
recalls how stolen moments reading about the empowered literary characters of
Jane Austen and Louisa May Alcott helped her to see an alternative way of
life—one she knew she had to seize when, at the age of nineteen, she gave birth
to a son and realized that more than just her own future was at stake.
Unorthodox is a captivating odyssey through adversity and a groundbreaking look into Orthodox Jewish culture.